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How to take and choose the best photos for your dating profile

In the realm of online dating, your profile picture plays a vital role—it serves as your initial impression. At Delmont, we understand that not everyone feels confident in front of the camera. Nevertheless, a fantastic image can reveal your genuine self and assist you in forming the right connections.

This guide is designed to help you capture the ideal selfies at home and select the most suitable images for your profile. We will provide key tips to ensure you shine and convey your personality in a true manner.

Let’s craft a profile that not only attracts attention but also encourages meaningful relationships. Your ideal match is merely a photo away.

How to take the perfect selfie

01 Set the scene

Choose a clean, uncluttered background to keep the focus on you.
Use natural settings, like a plain wall or tidy room, for the best results.
Position yourself facing a window to use soft, flattering natural light.
Avoid harsh overhead lighting or backlighting that casts unflattering shadows.

02 Positioning and framing

Experiment with angles to find your most flattering side.
Slightly turn your head and body to create a more dynamic photo.
Relax your shoulders and maintain a natural posture.
Avoid stiff poses; instead, think of how you stand or sit when relaxed.

03 Expression and engagement

Think of a happy memory to evoke a genuine smile.
Practice different expressions to see what feels most natural.
Look directly at the camera to create a sense of connection.

04 Set the scene

High-Quality Photos Only: Ensure your photos are clear, well-lit, and sharp, especially your primary photo. Avoid blurry or grainy images.
Limit Filters: Use filters sparingly; heavy filters can look unnatural. Authentic photos make stronger connections.

Make-up tips

For your profile photos, a natural make-up look is often the best choice. Wearing a bit of make-up can enhance your features and ensure you look your best on camera. The camera can sometimes make you appear more flushed or washed out, so a light application of foundation or BB cream can even out your skin tone.

A touch of concealer under the eyes can brighten your look, while a bit of blush adds a healthy glow. Keep eye make-up simple with neutral shades and a coat of mascara to define your lashes. Lastly, choose a lip colour that enhances your natural lip tone. Remember, the goal is to enhance your features subtly, so you still look like yourself, just a bit more polished.

Grooming tips for men

For your profile photos, a natural make-up look is often the best choice. Wearing a bit of make-up can enhance your features and ensure you look your best on camera. The camera can sometimes make you appear more flushed or washed out, so a light application of foundation or BB cream can even out your skin tone.

A touch of concealer under the eyes can brighten your look, while a bit of blush adds a healthy glow. Keep eye make-up simple with neutral shades and a coat of mascara to define your lashes. Lastly, choose a lip colour that enhances your natural lip tone. Remember, the goal is to enhance your features subtly, so you still look like yourself, just a bit more polished.

Clothing and accessories

You should be dressed in an outfit that flatters your body and makes you feel confident, as this will give you an overall sexier vibe. Avoid over-sized coats or jackets, as they will make you appear bigger.

Additionally, be cautious with noisy patterns, as well as power suits that you might wear in the boardroom – you’re here to convey your friendliness, not your authority! Think of conveying your ‘social relaxed self’, what you would normally wear when you feel comfortable yet confident, and good about yourself. Ladies, a good pair of heels can elongate your legs superbly.

Include a variety of shots

01 HEADSHOT

A clear, well-lit headshot that captures the your face and expression.

02 FULL LENGTH

A full-body shot that provides a complete view of the your posture and presence.

03 A PLANDID PHOTO

A plandid — that captures you in a moment of genuine joy and relaxation.

No disguises!

You might be amazed how often people think a hat — or worse, sunglasses — will make them seem mysterious or intriguing. In reality, it usually sends the opposite message: instead of adding charm, it can make you look like you’re hiding something important. When someone can’t clearly see your eyes or your full face, they’re less likely to trust what they’re seeing — and more likely to scroll past.

Let your natural features be visible and let your expressions speak for you. Show your eyes, your smile, and the real energy you carry. Keep it genuine, show your face with pride, and give your potential matches the chance to connect with the authentic, confident version of you.